Create the Relationship You Want
Not the One You Don’t Want

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Are You Ready?

Are you ready to create the relationship you really want with the person you choose?  The Love You Want

Really?  Are you sure?  In my experience so many of us say, in words, that we want to create our special relationship but our thoughts and behaviors reveal the opposite.  If you are busy blaming the other person, feeling sorry for yourself, wanting the other person to change, feeling that you are not good enough or that YOU need to change – any of that – you are revealing that you are not quite ready to create your relationships. Continue reading →

How High is Your Relationship Trust Rank?

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This post was inspired by Sherman Smith’s Blog How Do You Build Trust Rank?

The Value of Trust

Balance by Salvatore Vuon, FreeDigitalPhotos.net

Balance by Salvatore Vuon, FreeDigitalPhotos.net

Trust develops when we do the right thing, even if nobody else knows but our partner, our business associate, our child or our friend.  If you made a date, saw the person sitting at the coffee shop table or waiting at the bar, and decided there is no attraction, what would you do?  Would you quietly slip out the door and let that person sit alone, waiting…?  Continue reading →

A Loving Relationship is NOT an Olympic Event

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Love is Too Difficult

  • Does creating a loving relationship feel like a monumental task?
  • Are you trying harder and harder with less and less satisfaction?
  • Did you think that life would be so much easier if only you had a partner?
  • Have you actually given up on finding love or doing what it takes?  Continue reading →

The 10 Relationship Powers You Need

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The 10 Relationship PowersEvery relationship involves a balance of power.  Between two friends, two business associates, two family members or two lovers, that balance is often tipped in one direction.  One person feels more powerful and the other feels less powerful.  One of the reasons we adore our precious pets and our developing babies is that we have an enormous sense of power and control – at first.  However, if you do not develop the 10 essential relationship powers, you may soon start to feel powerless – no matter how that relationship began. Continue reading →