As a lifelong learner and synthesizer, I have always loved to study a subject in depth and then study a slightly different approach to that same subject and then another approach. For example, when I learned guitar, I studied folk, jazz and joined a rock band course. Each new instructor thought that he or she had the secret to speeding up or accelerating my learning. But for me there was no way to rush the process. Continue reading
Are you ready to create the relationship you really want with the person you choose? 
Really? Are you sure? In my experience so many of us say, in words, that we want to create our special relationship but our thoughts and behaviors reveal the opposite. If you are busy blaming the other person, feeling sorry for yourself, wanting the other person to change, feeling that you are not good enough or that YOU need to change – any of that – you are revealing that you are not quite ready to create your relationships. Continue reading
Recently, I created an e book all about choosing different places to meet the love of your life. And I know it works. So many people have met, and continue to meet, a wonderful partner – and often for life – by thinking creatively and keeping their eyes open to possibilities. But something was left out of that book, and I feel compelled to write about it now. 
Any one of us, if we create an attractive appearance, smile and reach out in a friendly and inviting manner, and speak in appealing ways, can meet and connect with someone new. But what happens after that initial meeting? Do we feel so excited by the possibility of love and romance and sexual pleasure that we overlook warning signs and red flags about this person, probably a total stranger before we started talking? Continue reading