All You Need Is Love

Have you ever wondered why some men succeed in business and thrive in long term relationships and marriages while other men seem to struggle financially, emotionally and even physically throughout their lives? Successful ManRecently, in the prestigious Society for Sex Therapy and Research list serve, I was introduced to the results of an ongoing, longitudinal study.  These findigs provide some not so surprising answers to the question of what physiological and psychological traits determine a man’s success in his relationships and his career.

The Grant Study

This amazing one of a kind study called the Grant Study, began in 1938, 76 years ago, and continues today….

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What If YOU Were Wrongly Accused?

Today a man died at the age of 76.  But this was no ordinary man.  This was a man with a criminal record who got straightened out, became a successful boxer.  His career was taking a downturn but he was determined to get back in the ring.  And then, he just happened to be found in the wrong place at the wrong time.  And the rest is history.

Wrongly AccusedFormer world boxing champion Mike Tyson tweeted about this unusual man. “We lost a great man today.  Rubin ‘hurricane’ Carter, the boxer who was wrongfully accused and became a symbol for racial injustice.  Continue reading

I Love You … I Love You Not

LovebirdsLove is a verb, it involves internal and external action. It is so easy to say “I love you” to someone who is providing what you need in the moment, is pleasing your senses, and is doing and being what you believe is correct. The emotion of love is just that – an emotion. And emotions can be quite fickle, changing in an instant. Continue reading